Ukuphupha izinto, iintshukumo okanye izehlo ngegama elingu-S zininzi kwaye nganye kuzo inentsingiselo kuwe. Ukuba uphuphe ngezinto ezimangazayo, ihlathi, ilanga, iimyusi, ityuwa, amabele, njl. Nganye kwezi zinto ziyakukunceda ukuba ube nokutolikwa kwengqondo yakho.
Ngenxa yokuba iphupha ngalinye liphethe umyalezo nentsingiselo, uya kwazi ukuba uziva uphelelwe lithemba, uxhalabile, okanye uvuyo olugqithisileyo ngeli xesha ebomini bakho. Uloyiko nokungaqiniseki zezinye zezinto ezisixhalabisayo kakhulu, kwaye ukuqonda ezi mvakalelo kuya kusinceda sizazi ngcono. Fumanisa amaphupha ethu aphambili aqala ngoonobumba u-S.
Kweli nqaku, ndiza kutyhila zonke iinkcukacha malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngegazi . Igazi yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yomzimba wethu. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, sihlala siliphupha ngesizathu esithile. Akukho ndlela inye yokufumana ingcaciso yokwenyani, njengoko ingqondo engaphantsi kwengqondo inokulityhila ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeenyoka , eli nqaku liza kutyhila zonke iinkcukacha. Iinyoka zizilwanyana ezihlala zisoyikisa emaphupheni kuba uninzi lwazo lunobuthi. Zinokukuluma, zijikeleze intamo yakho, okanye zihambehambahamba. Ngaphezu koko, ziza ngemibala emininzi kunye nobukhulu.
Khumbula ukuba kukho iintlobo ezininzi zamaphupha aquka iinyoka . Izilwanyana ezirhubuluzayo zinokuba nkulu okanye zincinci, okanye zibe nemibala eyahlukeneyo. Zingaba ngabantu abadala okanye iintsana, kwaye zenze izenzo ezahlukeneyo. Ke ngoko, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokutolika iphupha ngalinye, kwaye yiloo nto ndiza kuyichaza apha. Kufuneka ufumane elakho kuphela.
Ukuba ubukele imuvi kutshanje ebonisa ukubiwa kwabantu, njengeThe Boston Strangler, idokhumentari ehlola iingqondo zabathimbi, okanye ingxelo yeendaba ezibuhlungu malunga nomntwana olahlekileyo, unokuba namaphupha afanayo njengendlela yokubonakalisa uxabiso lwakho ngobomi bakho. Kodwa akufuneki ukuba ubone isiganeko esinjalo ukuze kwenzeke eli phupha libi. Kweli nqaku, ndiza kuchaza ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngokubanjwa kwabantu.
Kodwa kufuneka wazi ukuba ukuthinjwa ephupheni kunokubangelwa zizizathu ezininzi, ingasathethwa ke ngempembelelo yomxholo kunye nemeko ojongene nayo kwintsingiselo yephupha. Akufani nokuba ngumthinjwa njengokuba kunjalo ukubanjwa nokubaleka , okanye ukuba kwenzeka ukubulawa , okanye ukuba umntwana wakho, usana, okanye nawuphi na umntu omthandayo uthinjiwe. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukufunda ezi ngcaciso zilandelayo kunye nohlalutyo lwengqondo ngokweenkcukacha.
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngee-zombies? Ngaba uyayithanda i-TV yaseMelika? Ingakumbi i-The Walking Dead ? Ngaba iHalloween isondela kwaye ngaba ukhe wacinga ngokunxiba njenge- zombie ? Ukuba usandul’ ukubona aba "bafileyo abaphilayo," kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubaphupha ngabo. Xa abantu belele, badla ngokucinga ngendawo ebangqongileyo kunye noko bakubonileyo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba singene nzulu kuloo nto, kufuneka wazi ukuba ukutolika amaphupha kunokwahluka kakhulu ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yakho kunye nemeko yakho yangoku yeemvakalelo. Siza kuqala ngokuchaza iintsingiselo eziqhelekileyo neziqhelekileyo size siqhubekele kwezinye iingcaciso ezicacileyo.
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeentonga okanye amasele? Iintonga ziyathandwa ngabanye, kodwa abanye bayayithiya. Zidla ngokunxulunyaniswa nobukhosi, impumelelo, kunye nokuchuma ngokwezimali. Abantu abaninzi banamaphupha okanye amaphupha amabi ngezi zilwanyana ziphila emanzini kwaye abakwazi ukufumana ingcaciso ecacileyo. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba wonke umntu wahlukile, kwaye kufuneka uqwalasele imeko yakho kwaye uzame ukukhumbula iinkcukacha zephupha lakho.
Akufani nokubona ixoxo elikhulu okanye elincinci, ixoxo eliphilayo okanye elifileyo , elinemibala, elimthubi okanye elibomvu. Ngaba lisemanzini okanye emhlabeni? Ngaba livela ecaleni kwezinye izilwanyana ezifana neenyoka, iinyoka, okanye iinciniba? Kubalulekile ukwazi oku kuba intsingiselo yahluka kakhulu.