Asikhethi ukuba siphupha ngantoni okanye siphupha ngabani. Yiyo loo nto imixholo yamaphupha inokwahluka kangaka, kwaye kule meko, sihlola ihlabathi leengcinga ezingeyonyani. Ewe, kuba namhlanje sizibuza ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeengcinga ezingeyonyani , kwaye siza kukutyhilela.
Kakade ke, xa sithetha ngelo hlabathi leengcinga , kukho iinkcukacha ezininzi ezijikeleze lona. Iingcinga zesondo azifani nezidalwa okanye abalinganiswa abamangalisayo abavela kwiinkqubo zakho zeTV ozithandayo. Ekubeni konke oku kunokwahlulwahlulwa, masingachithi xesha lingakumbi size siqalise. Ngaba ufuna ukulifumanisa?
Ukuba ubuzibuza ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngamaphupha, singakuxelela ukuba kuqhelekile. Konke kuvela engqondweni yethu, njengoko ngokuqhelekileyo kuyindlela yokuzikhulula kwisiqhelo esiqhele ukusenza. Yindlela yokubaleka ethatha iingcambu kwezi zihloko zimangalisayo kwaye isikhokelela ekubeni sibe namava amatsha.
Ngokukodwa, xa amaphupha ethu equlethe izinto ezimangalisayo, kuthiwa amele iminqweno yethu . Kodwa anokubangela uloyiko olwahlukeneyo, kuxhomekeke kwimifanekiso, umzuzu ephupheni, nokuba siziva sivuya okanye sisoyika. Ngamanye amazwi, xa sele sinephupha elimangalisayo, kubalulekile ukulihlalutya ngokusondeleyo ukuze siqonde ukuba yayiluhlobo luni lwephupha kunye nezinto esizibonileyo kulo. Okokuqala, siyazi ukuba la maphupha avela kwiminqweno efihlakeleyo esifuna ukuyiveza ekukhanyeni.
Ukuba uphupha amaphupha esondo namaphupha , kufuneka wazi ukuba anokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba uthatha inxaxheba kwi-orgy ephupheni lakho, oko kungabonisa ukuba udinga uthando olungaphezulu kunolo ulufumanayo ngoku. Kwelinye icala, ukuba udibana nomntu ongamaziyo, kungabonisa ukuba uneenkxalabo ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzihlalutye kwaye ujongane nazo. Ukuba uphupha ubandakanyeka kwizenzo ezintsha, kuthetha ukuba udinga utshintsho kwaye uphume kwindlela yakho yokwenza izinto.
Isenokungabi lelinye lamaphupha aqhelekileyo, kodwa linokwenzeka. Ukuphupha ngeengqwele zethu ezinkulu kunento esinokuyixelelwa. Ukuba ubabona bebhabha, oko kubonisa ukuba izisombululo azisoloko zivela ekucingeni kakhulu. Kungcono ukuthemba ingqiqo yethu, kwaye kulapho ke isitshixo sikhoyo.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba ungumntu odumileyo , oko kuthetha ukuba ungumntu oqinisekileyo, umntu owenza umahluko kwaye uthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Oku kubonisa ukuba awudingi mntu wumbi, ukuba uzimele.
Ngokwesiqhelo, xa siphupha ngezilwanyana ezimangalisayo, kunxulumene nobomi bethu bobuqu nobothando. Zibonisa ukuthembeka, kwaye ewe, oku kunokuvavanywa ngokuxhomekeke kwiphupha ngokwalo. Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela kubudlelwane namaqabane athandanayo kodwa nakubuhlobo kunye nobudlelwane.
Ukuba ubona i -unicorn enamaphiko , oko kuthetha ukuba uza kudibana nomntu omtsha oza kutshintsha ubomi bakho. Ukuba i-unicorn imhlophe kwaye isondele, oko kubonisa uthando lokwenene. Ukuba ubona idrako, oko kuthetha ukuba ukwindawo elungileyo, apho uxolo lulawula khona ngemihla yakho.
Kwimeko enjalo, xa siphupha ngemisebenzi efana nokuba yipolisa, ugqirha, okanye umongikazi, oko kubonisa ukuba kukho utshintsho oluzayo ebomini bethu . Into ebesiyidinga ixesha elide kodwa singakayifezi. Ngamanye amaxesha inokubonisa nokuphucula umsebenzi wethu. Ngoko ke, ngomzamo, ngokuqinisekileyo siya kuphumelela.
Ngamanye amaxesha ayisosilwanyana okanye umntu, kodwa sizifumana sikwiindawo zomlingo ezibonakala zibonakala kwiimuvi, kodwa kule meko, zidluliselwe kumaphupha ethu. Ewe, oko kunentsingiselo, kwaye kukwethemba nethemba. Kubonakala ngathi iinjongo zakho ziya zisondela , kwaye oko kukwenza uzive unamandla kwaye unethemba ngakumbi.
Kukho iintsomi ezininzi , ezo ntsomi zakudala ezisoloko zisinika ukutya kokucinga. Inyani yile, simele sizibandakanye ekutolikeni amaphupha malunga namaphupha. Kaloku, ukuba ephupheni lakho ubona intsomi oyaziyo, nokuba yintoni na, kufuneka wazi ukuba uyoyika ukujongana nezinto ongazaziyo, nokuba ngabantu okanye iimeko ezinokuvela ebomini bakho.
Ukuphupha ngezinto ezingaphezu kwendalo kubonisa ukuba singena kwinqanaba elitsha ebomini bethu. Eliya kubakho utshintsho olukhulu, sishiye oko kungasasincedi. Nokuba sihlala sicinga ngako, yinto eza kusenza sizive singcono ekugqibeleni. Sifuna ukufumana iimpendulo ebesizilindele. Uhlaziyo luyeza. Ubuqhelene nazo zonke ezi ntsingiselo?
Ezi zidalwa zineempiko zinoxanduva lokudlulisela umyalezo kuthi, kwaye ukuphupha ngeengelosi kunokuba neentsingiselo ezilungileyo nezingalunganga. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, umfanekiso wazo ubunxulunyaniswa nobunyulu bomphefumlo, kunye nokukhuselwa koluntu, kodwa kukwakho neengelosi ezibuhlungu nezingenabuhlobo. Ndiza kutyhila zonke iimfihlo ngezantsi.
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ubhabha ubuye uqhube? Ukuba uhlala uphupha ukuba ubhabha, kudla ngokuba yimbonakaliso entle. Eli phupha liqhelekile kubantu abangathanda ukuba namandla angaphaya kwawemvelo. Kwaye into yokugqibela esiyifunayo kukuvuka, kuba siyazi ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokubhabha ngolu hlobo kukumaphupha ethu.
Kusinika uluvo olumangalisayo lwenkululeko, i-adrenaline, kunye nokuzimela ukuya naphi na apho sithanda khona. Khumbula ukuba kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokutolika ngokusekelwe kumxholo wephupha kunye nobuntu bakho. Kubantu abaninzi, ukubhabha kuthetha inkululeko , ukukwazi ukushiya zonke iingxaki zabo ngasemva, ngelixa abanye beziva benesizungu.
Xa uphupha ngezigebenga, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ukhe waziva ungaphantsi kwabanye ngaxa lithile, umntu ongabalulekanga kweli hlabathi. Ukugxekwa ngabazali bakho ngokungaphumeleli kuviwo, ukugxekwa ngutitshala esikolweni, okanye ukungavisisani nomphathi wakho emsebenzini kunokubangela olu luvo. Uziva umncinci xa uthelekiswa nabanye abantu, ungenamandla, awukwazi ukwenza nto.
Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iindlela zokutolika zinokwenzeka ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko zephupha. Umzekelo, akuthethi into efanayo ukuba usukelwa sisigebenga (funda ngakumbi ngokuphupha usukelwa ) ngokungathi ungumntu omkhulu onyathela ilali engenakuzikhusela . Ke ngoko, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ucinge ngazo zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka.
Imimoya , ii-UFO , kunye nezinye izinto ezingaphaya kwendalo ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethu. Ngoko ke, ukuphupha imimoya kunentsingiselo ethile enxulumene nathi. Ngokubanzi, liphupha elibonisa isidingo sokutshintsha indlela esiziphatha ngayo , kodwa ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko nakwinqanaba lobomi esikulo, iintsingiselo ezininzi ezinokwenzeka zinokuqwalaselwa. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu osebenzisa i-poltergeist akavuseleli uloyiko, utolikwa ngendlela eyakhayo; nangona kunjalo, ukuba kunjalo, kufuneka lithathwe nzulu kakhulu.
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngee-zombies? Ngaba uyayithanda i-TV yaseMelika? Ingakumbi i-The Walking Dead ? Ngaba iHalloween isondela kwaye ngaba ukhe wacinga ngokunxiba njenge- zombie ? Ukuba usandul’ ukubona aba "bafileyo abaphilayo," kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubaphupha ngabo. Xa abantu belele, badla ngokucinga ngendawo ebangqongileyo kunye noko bakubonileyo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba singene nzulu kuloo nto, kufuneka wazi ukuba ukutolika amaphupha kunokwahluka kakhulu ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yakho kunye nemeko yakho yangoku yeemvakalelo. Siza kuqala ngokuchaza iintsingiselo eziqhelekileyo neziqhelekileyo size siqhubekele kwezinye iingcaciso ezicacileyo.