Xa usemncinci kwaye kufuneka uye esikolweni, ukuphupha ngesikolo akuyonto oyifunayo , ingakumbi kuba sele unemali eyaneleyo yokuchitha iiyure ezi-5-6 apho. Nangona kunjalo, ngaba wakha wacinga ukuba iphupha elinjalo linokuba nentsingiselo?
Kuthekani ukuba uyaphupha, ngoku umdala, wesikolo? Kuthekani ukuba ubona abantwana besiya esikolweni? Ngezantsi sityhila yonke into ofuna ukuyazi malunga nolu hlobo lwamaphupha. Ngaba iya kuba yekhayo okanye embi?
phupha ngesikolo
Njengoko kuqhele ukuba njalo, ukuphupha ngesikolo kunentsingiselo ezimbini, enye elungileyo nenye embi . Kuxhomekeke kwintoni? Kaloku, kuxhomekeke kwindlela ovakalelwa ngayo. Ukuba wonwabile kwaye uziva ngathi izinto zihamba kakuhle ebomini, ngoko ke inokuba yinto entle. Kodwa ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, izinto azihambi kakuhle (umzekelo, kuba udlula kwixesha elinzima), eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba kufuneka ubuyele ekuqaleni ukuze usombulule nantoni na ekuthintelayo ukuba uqhubeke phambili.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, amaphupha malunga nezikolo awatolikwa kakuhle , adla ngokubonisa ukungaqiniseki okungasonjululwanga, iingxaki, okanye iintlungu zangaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, iinkcukacha ezithile zephupha olikhumbulayo zibalulekile ekutolikweni kwalo.
Ke, siza kubona amanye amaphupha aqhelekileyo kunye nokuba athetha ukuthini kwi-subconscious yakho.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha isikolo esingaziwayo
Inene wakha waphupha apho ungazaziyo ukuba uphi. Mhlawumbi ubuyazi indlela yokuya kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo; okanye mhlawumbi akunjalo. Eskolweni mhlawumbi?
Ukuba wakha waphupha ngesikolo ongasiqhelanga, intsingiselo enikiweyo kukuba iiprojekthi ezintsha, imingeni, neengxaki ziyeza , kwaye kuya kufuneka uziqhelanise nazo kwaye uzoyise ukuba ufuna ukwenza kakuhle.
Ukuba uzive ukhululekile ephupheni lakho, ingqondo yakho ikuxelela ukuba awuyi kuba nangxaki ; kwelinye icala, ukuba uyoyika, ungaqinisekanga ngento omawuyenze okanye apho uya khona, oko kungabonisa ukuba le misebenzi mitsha iyeza kwaye iya kutshintsha ubomi bakho . Ke ngoko, ukulungiselela kuya kukunceda uphumelele.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngesikolo sakho
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngesikolo sakho? Ngaba wakha waphupha ngokuba ngumntwana kwakhona uze uye esikolweni? Nokuba uyakholwa okanye akunjalo, kwenzeka kubantu abaninzi kunokuba ucinga, kwaye intsingiselo icacile: ukushiya ixesha elidlulileyo ngasemva.
Eli phupha lisisilumkiso esivela engqondweni yakho sokuba uyeke ukucinga ngexesha elidlulileyo elikuphawuleyo nelikuthintelayo ekubeni uqhubeke phambili; kwaye ucinge ngexesha langoku okanye nakwixesha elizayo.
Nokuba kukho into entle okanye embi eyenzekileyo kuwe, awunakuyitshintsha. Kwaye ukuhlala ucinga ngaloo mvakalelo, iintlungu, kunye neentlungu (okanye ngamava, uvuyo, kunye namaxesha angenakulibaleka) akuyi kukunceda nganto ebomini bakho bangoku.
Ke kufuneka usike ngaloo nkumbulo kwaye uvule iphepha ukujonga phambili.
Iphupha labantwana besiya esikolweni
Ephupheni, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungayi esikolweni ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa ubona ukuba bangaphi abantwana abaya esikolweni. Nangona ngenxa yokuba ziintsana sinenkcazelo "yobumsulwa", inyaniso kukuba akunjalo.
Ukuphupha abantwana besiya esikolweni kuthetha ukuba ingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo ikuxelela ukuba uneengxaki ezininzi kangangokuba udinga ikhefu . Mhlawumbi uxinzelelo, uxanduva, njalo njalo ziyayichaphazela indlela ovakalelwa ngayo kunye nempilo yakho, kwaye oko, ekugqibeleni, kunokukuchitha amandla.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ndisesikolweni sam esidala
Ngaba wakha waphupha ukuba ubuya esikolweni sakho sakudala? Isenokuba sisikolo sakho samabanga aphantsi (okanye i-EGB) okanye isikolo sakho samabanga aphakamileyo (okanye i-BUP). Kodwa eli phupha, onokucinga ukuba likhumbuza nje ngexesha elidlulileyo, lisisilumkiso sokuba kukho into ekubambezelayo.
Singathi kukho umqobo , ukubambezeleka kwixesha elidlulileyo okukuthintela ukuba uqhubele phambili , nokuba kusemsebenzini wakho, kubomi bosapho, okanye nakubomi bakho bobuqu. Oku kunokuba nefuthe elibi.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ukwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo
Isikolo samabanga aphakamileyo sesinye sezona zihlandlo zokukhula ebomini bethu . Ubudala bethu busenza siqaphele iziganeko ezininzi, kodwa sikwaqaphela neentlungu kunye neemeko ezisisondeza ebudaleni.
Ukuphupha ngesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kuneentsingiselo ezimbini ezibalulekileyo . Kwelinye icala, yingqondo yakho ekulumkisa ukuba utshintsho luyeza, kwaye olu luhle kuba luya kukunceda ukhule, ukhule, kwaye uphile ubomi obungcono (ukuba nje wenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo, ewe).
Kwelinye icala, intsingiselo yesibini ibonisa ukuba iiprojekthi ezintsha zisemnyango . Oku kungaba ngumsebenzi omtsha, uxanduva olutsha, iqabane elitsha…
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uthandwa esikolweni
Nokuba ubudumile okanye awuthandwanga, ukuphupha ngokuba ngumntu odumileyo esikolweni yinto elungileyo . Kubonisa ukuba uzive ukhululekile ngawe , oko kukuthi, wanelisekile bubomi bakho kwaye umsebenzi wakho nobomi bakho (okanye obunye) bukwenza wonwabe kuba ufezekise into obuyifuna. Okanye, ubuncinane, yiyo ekwenza wonwabe.
Ngokubanzi, ukuziva udumile kufana nokuziva udumile. Onke amehlo akuwe, kwaye oku kunokuba nentsingiselo efihlakeleyo: kusenokubakho abantu abangonwabanga ngempumelelo yakho , abanokuthi bakucaphukele, babe nomona, njl. Aba ngabantu ekuya kufuneka uzikhusele kubo.
Phupha ngeyadi yesikolo
Elinye lawona maxesha wawujonge phambili kuwo xa usesikolweni yayilixesha lekhefu. Kuthetha kuwe ixesha lenkululeko apho bekunganyanzelekanga ukuba uhoye utitshala, uthe cwaka okanye unike ingqwalasela.
Ngoko ke, ephupheni lakho, ukuba sebaleni lesikolo kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uzikhulule , ukuba uzele zizinto (umsebenzi, uxanduva, ukuxhatshazwa, amaxhala...) kangangokuba uza kugqibela uqhuma ukuba awuziniki xesha lokuphumla kwaye wonwabele ubomi kancinci.
Njengoko ubona, zininzi iintsingiselo zokuphupha ngesikolo. Ngaba ukhe wazibona ubonakala kuyo nayiphi na kuzo? Ngaba ukhe waphupha enye into? Sixelele ukuze sikuncede.
