Bathi amaphupha ngamaphupha. Kodwa eneneni kuhlala kukho imiyalezo evela kwi-subconscious yakho, ukuba uyayazi indlela yokuyitolika, inokukunceda kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Nokuba kukutshintsha okanye ukuba nethemba lento eza kuza kuwe. Ezinye zifana namaphupha amabi, njengokuphupha emeva. Enyanisweni, nangona kusithiwa intlungu ayinakuviwa, sinayo loo mvakalelo.
Kodwa kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngameva? Ingaba liphupha elihle okanye elibi? Kuthekani ukuba unamathelwa ezandleni okanye ezinyaweni zakho? Kuthekani ukuba uwabambe ngesandla? Ukuba uphuphe ngawo, nazi izitshixo zokuqonda intsingiselo yawo.
ukuphupha ngameva
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukuphupha ngameva akuqhelekanga kangako . Akuyonto esinayo, kwaye ayisiyonto esiyicingayo ngeengqondo zethu emaphupheni ethu. Nangona kunjalo, ungazifumana ukule meko ngaxa lithile ebomini bakho.
Ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwephupha kunye nendawo nexesha apho loo meva avela khona, intsingiselo iya kutshintsha. Liyinyaniso elokuba, ngokubanzi, lithetha ingxaki, into embi, okanye isiqinisekiso sokusilela kwakho . Kodwa ngokuxhomekeke kwiinkcukacha ozikhumbulayo, yonke into inokutshintsha.
Ngoko musani ukucinga ekuqaleni ukuba lishwangusha elibi. Nangona leyo yintsingiselo yayo ngokubanzi, kukho iinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe.
Phupha ngameva esandleni sakho
Xa uphupha ngameva ezandleni zakho, ingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo izama ukukunika isilumkiso . Ixesha elininzi inxulumene nomsebenzi. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba abantu abayithandi indlela owenza ngayo umsebenzi wakho, ukuba kukho abantu ongavisisaniyo nabo, njl.
Ke unethuba lokutshintsha ukuze ulungise oku.
Phupha ngameva wezityalo
Njengoko usazi, kukho izityalo ezinameva. I-Cacti okanye iirozi zinabo. Into onokuthi ungayazi kukuba, xa uphupha ngameva, kuyenzeka ukuba kukho intsingiselo eyahlukileyo ukuba angameva e-cactus kunokuba abe yimiva ye-rose.
Ixhomekeke kwintoni? Isityalo osibonayo. Ukuba unokusibona kwaye usikhumbule xa uvuka, eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukujonga uphawu lweso sityalo ukuze ukwazi ukuqagela intsingiselo yaso.
Kodwa, ukukunika umbono, ukuba ameva akwintyatyambo yerozi, kuthetha ukuba kukho izinto ezithile ongazinakiyo ezinokuchaphazela ubomi bakho bangoku okanye bexesha elizayo. Zisenokungabi ziingxaki ezinkulu, kodwa zincinci; nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyazityeshela, zinokuba mandundu kwaye zibangele iingxaki ezinkulu.
Kwimeko yemithi ye-cactus, sithetha ngokuziva uphelelwe likratshi . Kwaye oko akuyi kuchaphazela kuphela ukuzithemba kwakho, kodwa kunye nesipaji sakho.
Ukuba ameva avela kwisihlahla se-bramble, umzekelo kuba usifumana endleleni uze uqhubeke phambili , oko kuya kubonisa ukuba uza kungena kwixesha lezilingo neengxaki ekufuneka uzoyise ukuze uphumelele (okanye ushiywe ngasemva).
Phupha ndincamathelisa ameva ezandleni zam
Nangona kuthiwa asinakuva iintlungu emaphupheni, oku akusoloko kunjalo, kwaye ungazifumana uhlatywa ngameva esandleni sakho ephupheni lakho. Xa oko kusenzeka, ngokuqhelekileyo kuthathwa njengophawu lweengxaki emsebenzini, eziya kuchaphazela imali yakho.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uphelelwa ngumsebenzi, iiyure zakho zincitshisiwe, umvuzo wakho uthotyiwe...
Ngoku, ukuba ukongeza ekuphupheni ngokuhlatywa ngameva, uphupha nokuba uwasusa onke, nangona ezo ngxaki zisekho , likho ithemba kuba uza kuphuma (kuza kubakho isisombululo saloo ngxaki unayo).
Phupha ndisusa ameva ezinyaweni zam
Kanye njengokuba ameva egqobhoza izandla zakho, ukuba nawo ezinyaweni zakho kubonisa ukuba ujongene nemiqobo emininzi endleleni yakho kwaye iinjongo zakho zizaliswe ziingxaki . Ngoko ke, ukuze uzifezekise, kufuneka ube namandla kwaye unyamezele nokuba ujongene neemeko ezikwenza uphelelwe lithemba kwaye ufune ukunikezela.
Kodwa into yokuba ususa ameva ibonisa ukuba unamandla kwaye uyoyisa imiqobo endleleni yakho. Asinakukuxelela ukuba uza kufezekisa into oyifunayo, kodwa usondele kakhulu kuyo.
Phupha ngesithsaba sameva
Njengoko nisazi, isithsaba sameva sesinye sezona mpawu zinamandla zobuKristu. UYesu ngokwakhe wayenxiba isithsaba sameva de kwasekufeni kwakhe. Ingxaki kukuba uphawu lwaso lunxulumene nokubandezeleka, ukuthuthunjiswa, nokuphila phakathi kobunzima.
Ukuphupha ngesithsaba sameva akukho nto ingaphezulu kokubandezeleka zizandla zomntu ongaphantsi kwengqondo . Kwaye oko kuyenza kuba iyazi ukuba, ngaphakathi entliziyweni, nawe uyazi ukuba wenze isiphoso, ukuba wenze iziphoso.
Ke, ukuba ubeke iyeza kuyo, ungaya phambili.
Phupha iirozi ezibomvu ezinamameva
Njengoko besitshilo ngaphambili, xa uphupha ngemithi yezityalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuba sesiphi isityalo esibonakala ephupheni. Kule meko, kwaye ngokubanzi, ukuphupha ngemithi yerozi kubonisa ukuba awuzinaki iinkcukacha ezincinci ezinokuba zibalulekile ukuba zinganakwa (kwanokuchaphazela impilo yakho yengqondo).
Xa loo rozi ibomvu kwaye inameva, isilumkisa ngentlungu . Ayisiyonto ikhoyo, kodwa ithetha ngoxinzelelo, into esiphawuleyo kwaye yasenzakalisa, kwaye asikwazi ukuqhubeka.
Nangona kunjalo, uphawu oluxhaphakileyo lunokuba kukungcatshwa ngumntu osondeleyo kuwe . Isenokuba liqabane, ilungu losapho, umhlobo… Lisilumkisa ngokwenene ukuba kuza kwenzeka into ebuhlungu, okanye ukuba sele singene kuyo, kodwa irozi ngokwayo (ngaphandle kwameva) ibonisa ukuba siza kuyoyisa.
Ukuphupha ngameva kuneentsingiselo ezininzi. Ngaba uyalikhumbula iphupha lakho kwaye lahlukile kweli phupha sikuxeleleyo? Sibuze kwaye siya kuzama ukwenza ingqiqo kuyo!
