Amaphupha ngeempungutye akaqhelekanga kangako. Ukuphupha ngeempungutye kumela ubuchule bakho bokubona nokuva. Intsingiselo yalo ikwanxulumene nethamsanqa kunye nobuchule beshishini (oku kungenxa yokuba impungutye ineliso elibalaseleyo).
Aba badlwenguli bayathanda ukuhlala kude kube sebusuku, akukho mfuneko yokuba balale, ngendlela efanayo eyenzeka kulutsha lwanamhlanje, bahlala bethatha ixesha lokuya kulala. Kodwa amaphupha ngezi zilwanyana anokuba nolunye utoliko, olwahluka ngokuxhomekeke kumxholo, iimeko eziboniswa nguwe kunye nemizuzu ohamba kuyo.
Ngoko ke, ukuphupha isikhova sikujongile akufani nokuphupha ngeso sikuhlaselayo okanye eso uzibulala. Ngaba besiphila, sifile, okanye silimele? Ngaba besingaphakathi endlwini yakho okanye kwisebe lomthi ecaleni kwefestile yakho? Apha ngezantsi uza kufumana iinkcukacha zemeko nganye.
Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngezikhova kunye neebhokhwe
Izikhova zibonakalisa ukukwazi kwakho ukuziqhelanisa notshintsho , umzekelo, ukuba ushiye umsebenzi wakho ukuze usebenzele enye inkampani, okanye ukuba kuye kwafuneka ufudukele kwenye idolophu ngezizathu zakho. Usenokuziva uxinezelekile lolu tshintsho ekuqaleni, kodwa ekugqibeleni uya kuziqhelanisa kwaye uvune iingenelo zokukhula komntu kunye necala elihle lokuva izinto ezintsha.
Kwangokunjalo, nangona sikholelwa ukuba izikhova kunye neenciniba zihlala kuphela kumasebe emithi (yinto yokuqala ethi qatha engqondweni xa sicinga ngayo), ziyafumaneka kuphahla lwendlu, ematyholweni nakwezinye izityalo. Abanangxaki yokuziqhelanisa notshintsho olutsha.
Nangona kunjalo, intsingiselo ingadlulela phambili , njengoko ikwabonisa ubuchule bakho bokuqonda kunye nokuqonda.
Olunye utoliko lwamaphupha nezikhova okanye izikhova
Iintaka ezidla inyama zasebusuku nazo zibonisa ubuntu obukhumbula izinto zakudala , obuhlala bubuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo ukuze bukhumbule ubuntwana obonwabisayo. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, sibone izikhova ezingenakubalwa kumabali abantwana, ngelixa njengabantu abadala sizifunda esikolweni okanye sizibona kwiidokhumentari. Zibonakala ngathi zizidalwa ezinobubele, zisijonga emithini ngaphandle kokuvala amehlo azo (ezinye azinazo iinkophe).
Ukuphupha ulala okanye uvukile izikhova
Ngaba bavukile okanye balele? Kutheni besijongile? Yintoni ebatsalele ingqalelo? Ngaba lishwa elibi? Ngaba unengxaki yokungalali okanye unengxaki yokulala ebusuku? Njengoko ubona, zininzi iindlela esinokuzichaza, uphawu olubonisa ubulumko besilwanyana ngokukwazi ukubona yonke into engqongileyo ngaphandle kokuphumla. Ephupheni, isikhova siya kwazi igama lakho, ukuba ungubani, kunye nento oyenzayo ukuze uphile.
Ukuba kuvela isikhova esivukileyo ephupheni lakho, oko kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kumtyhila umntu okungcatshayo.
Ukuba, kwelinye icala, isikhova sibonakala silele, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho umntu okungcatshayo, kodwa awazi ukuba ngubani.
Ukuphupha isikhova ngeglasi
Sihlala sikhumbula izikhova kwiincwadi zakudala. Okumangalisayo kukuba kutheni zaziboniswa ngeeglasi ukuba amehlo azo amhle kangaka. Abantwana batsaleleka lula zizikhova ngenxa yamehlo abo avulekileyo akujonga ngokungakhathaliyo kwaye avuselele umoya woxolo.
Iphupha lokuzingela isikhova
Kodwa musani ukukhohliswa, kuba emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ziintaka ezizingelayo kwaye zinobuchule kakhulu ekuzingeleni . Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuphupha ngesikhova kubonisa umlinganiswa othe ngqo nozimiseleyo; sithanda ukufikelela ngqo kwingongoma. Asihambi singxamile; ukuba kufuneka senze into ethile, asichithi xesha lide siyifikelele ngokukhawuleza, nokuba kukuphakanyiswa, usukelo, okanye uthando.
Ngoku ... sixelele, belinjani iphupha lakho? Utolike njani? Zazithetha ntoni izikhova? Abafundi baya kukuvuyela ukuba nezinye izimvo kunye nokwabelana ngamava.
Ividiyo yentsingiselo yokuphupha ngezikhova
Ukuba ulifumene linomdla eli nqaku malunga nokuphupha ngezikhova , ndicebisa ukuba ufunde amanye amanqaku afanayo kwicandelo malunga nokuphupha izilwanyana.
