Kunqabile kakhulu ukuba sibe nempembelelo kumaphupha. Ngesi sizathu, sihlala sizibona sisenza izinto ezinokuthi zenzeke mihla le, okanye ezinye ezingenakwenzeka ngokupheleleyo kubomi bokwenyani. Kule meko, ukuphupha ibhanana akunakwenzeka. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyayidla, uyayibona, uyithenge, okanye inombala othile.
Kodwa xa uvuka kuloo phupha, ngaba yinto yokuqala oyikhumbulayo? Kaloku, kukho intsingiselo eya kuxhomekeka kuhlobo lwebhanana kunye nokwenzekileyo . Singakunceda uyiqonde?
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ibhanana
Ngokubanzi, ukuphupha ngebhanana luphawu oluhle nolulungileyo . Kuthetha ukuba amandla amahle ayeza kuwe kwaye kuza kubakho utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakho , into eya kukuvuselela kwaye yenze loo maxesha aphantsi (okanye iimvakalelo zokunganeliseki) onokuba unazo ziphele.
Kodwa lumka, ayizizo zonke iiphupha eziphathelele iibhanana ezilungileyo . Ngamanye amaxesha ingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo ikulumkisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Ngoko ke, makhe sijonge ezinye iimeko ezahlukeneyo size sichaze ukuba zithetha ukuthini.
Iphupha lebhanana eluhlaza
Njengoko usazi, iibhanana ezingavuthwanga zinamaxolo aluhlaza, kwaye ukuba la ngawo avela ephupheni lakho, kufuneka wazi ukuba anxulumene nombala ngokwawo. Uluhlaza ngumbala woxolo, ukuzola , kunye nesimo sengqondo esihle.
Ngoko ke, ukuba uphupha iibhanana eziluhlaza, kuthetha ukuba uzolile kwaye uzolile , kwaye oko ukwenzayo kukwenza uzive ulungile. Oku kuthetha ukuba awufuni iingxabano nosapho lwakho okanye iqabane lakho, kwaye ukuba kukho naziphi na izinto eziphakamayo, unako ukuzisingatha ngoxolo kwaye uzame ukuzisombulula ngaphandle kokuvumela iimvakalelo zakho zikulawule.
Singathi kukukhula okuphezulu , kuba uyakwazi ukucinga izinto kakuhle kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo. Ingxaki kukuba olu xolo lunokubangela ukungahlali kakuhle, ukungafuni ukuthatha umngcipheko, kunye nokungaphumeleli ukusebenzisa amathuba ngenxa yokoyika ukuba ezo zigqibo ziya kubeka emngciphekweni uxolo lwakho lwengqondo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ibhanana evuthiweyo?
Ukuba ungumthandi webhanana, uya kuyazi ukuba xa ikwincopho yayo, phakathi kokuvuthwa kunye nohlaza, kuxa uyifumanisa imnandi kakhulu. Kodwa kule meko, kuthekani ukuba uphupha ibhanana elivuthiweyo?
Luphawu lokuba kukho into entle ezayo, kodwa lukwabonisa ukuba kufuneka uxanduva olukhulu . Isenokuba ngumsebenzi omtsha, ukonyuswa komvuzo, okanye enye into ngokupheleleyo.
Olu tshintsho lutsha lufuna ukuba uhlengahlengise kwaye uthathe uxanduva olungakumbi . Ngoko ke, thatha kancinci.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntu ophupha iibhanana ezivuthiweyo ngumfazi , oko kubonisa ukuba ujongene nesigqibo malunga nomcimbi wosapho, uhambo, umsebenzi, njl. Ezi zigqibo ziya kuchaphazela uphuhliso lwakhe lomsebenzi kunye nolwakhe.
Phupha usitya ibhanana
Ngaba wakha waphupha ngokutya ibhanana? Xa siyitya ebomini bokwenyani, kwaye inencasa emnandi, siziva kamnandi. Kwaye yiloo nto kanye eya kwenzeka xa uyitya ephupheni. Ibonisa ukuba indlela oyikhethileyo, kunye nobomi bakho ngokubanzi, iyakha kwaye usebenzise onke amathuba afike ngendlela eyiyo.
Ngumvuzo wakho konke ukuzincama okwenzileyo ukuza kuthi ga kwelo nqanaba.
Phupha ngeebhanana ezityheli
Ukuba endaweni yokuba luhlaza oko ukubonayo ephupheni lakho ziibhanana ezimthubi, ngaphandle kokuba zintle kancinci, zikwanayo necala elibi.
Kumaphupha, iibhanana ezimthubi zifanekisela ulonwabo olukhulu . Kukho into ezayo eza kukwenza wonwabe kakhulu, kodwa kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba uyamkele loo lonwabo. Nangona kunjalo, kule meko, uza kuba phakathi kolonwabo nosizi . Kufana nokuba ufuna into ethile, kodwa kwelinye icala, uziva ulusizi okanye uzive ngathi kufuneka ulahle into oyithandayo.
Ingaba luthando olutsha, ithuba lomsebenzi, iprojekthi entsha ... Ukuqwalasela ukuba iibhanana eziphuzi ziyimpawu ye-positivism, kufuneka uqalise ulonwabo kwaye ushiye ukudabuka emva.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iibhanana ezinkulu?
Ngokuqhelekileyo ubungakanani bebhanana abukho bukhulu kakhulu. Kodwa, njengoko uyazi, ephupheni lakho nantoni na inokwenzeka. Kwaye kule meko, kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iibhanana ezinkulu? Ngaba ilungile okanye imbi?
Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ubungakanani bebhanana emaphupheni akho buya kuxhomekeka kwisimo sakho sengqondo. Ukuba oku kulungile, iibhanana ziya kuba zikhulu kakhulu; kodwa ukuba ayenzeki, yoba ncinane.
Ngokubanzi, ukuphupha ngeebhanana ezinkulu kuthetha ukuba kukho utshintsho olukhulu oluzayo , kwaye usemendweni olungileyo. Kodwa lumka, kuba oko kuya kwenzeka kuphela ukuba iibhanana ozibonayo ephupheni lakho zigqibelele.
Ukuba zivuthiwe, okanye zibolile, oko kuthetha okuchaseneyo noko usandul’ ukukufunda.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ixolo lebhanana?
Nangona besisithi ngokubanzi ukuphupha ngebhanana luphawu oluhle, kule meko, okufanayo akunakutshiwo. Ixolo, ngaphandle kwebhanana ngokwayo, libonisa ukulumka . Into ethile ebomini bakho, okanye into eza kuvela kungekudala, iza kukukhubekisa.
Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka unikele ingqalelo ngakumbi kwiinkcukacha nakubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ukuze uziphephe ngaphambi kokuba kube kade kakhulu.
Iphupha leebhanana ezincinci
Ukuba into oyibonayo ephupheni lakho zibhanana ezincinci kakhulu , ingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo ikulumkisa ukuba iingxaki zomsebenzi kunye/okanye zempilo ziza kuza , ngoko ke kufuneka wenze utshintsho oluninzi ebomini bakho ukuze uzisombulule.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukubona iibhanana zikude
Ukuba iibhanana ozibonayo zikude kakhulu, oko kubonisa ukuba ulonwabo lwakho aluxhomekekanga kuwe, kodwa kwabanye abantu . Ngoko ke oko kubonakala njengesilumkiso sokuba utshintshe loo ndlela yokucinga uze uqale ukuzibona njengoyena mntu ubangela ulonwabo lwakho.
Ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ibhanana, ngokuqinisekileyo, xa kwenzeka kuwe, uya kuba uyazi ukuba ingqondo yakho ifuna ukukuxelela ntoni.
