Ukuphupha ngetshokholethi akuqhelekanga njengokuphupha ngeenyoka okanye izigcawu , kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kumnandi ngakumbi. Ukuba ne-subconscious yakho ikubonise into emnandi luphawu oluhle, njengoko luhlala lunentsingiselo entle. Iikeyiki, iipastries, iitshokholethi—zonke zimnandi. Kodwa yintoni kanye kanye intsingiselo yeli phupha?
Khumbula ukuba ukuze ulitolike ngokuchanekileyo iphupha lakho, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela imeko, indlela ibali eliqhubeka ngayo, kunye nenqanaba lobomi okulo. Umzekelo, ukuphupha usela indebe yetshokholethi eshushu ekhaya (uphawu lokuzola) akufani nokuphupha utya itshokholethi (okubonisa ukungoneliseki kukutya kwakho kwangoku). Uza kufumana zonke iinkcukacha ngezantsi.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngetshokholethi?
Phantse wonke umntu ukufumanisa kunzima ukumelana nencasa emnandi yekoko , into emnandi efanela oothixo. Oku kutya kudla ngokumela inxalenye ethile yobomi bakho bothando okanye ubudlelwane, ingakumbi xa unokucinga ngekhekhe elimnandi ngelixa uphumle ngoxolo, uvuka ebuthongweni uzive unoxolo kwaye wonwabile. Kodwa kukho ezinye iinguqulelo, kwihlabathi lamaphupha, ezitolikwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo.
Ukuphupha usitya itshokolethi emnyama luphawu lokuzingca ngomsebenzi okanye iprojekthi efezekise iinjongo zayo. Ngale ndlela, uzivuza ngesi sipho sifanelekileyo.
Okwangoku, i-cocoa bean luphawu lokuvelisa . Ngaba uneshishini elichumayo? Ngaba izinto zihamba kakuhle ebomini bakho bothando? Ngaba unyuselwe emsebenzini? Ngaba ufumene amanqaku amahle kwiimviwo zakho? Bekungayi kumangaliswa ukuba inqwelo egcwele i-cocoa ivele engqondweni yakho.
Ukuba utya itshokolethi eninzi kakhulu ngexesha lokulala kwakho , oko kubonisa ukungoneliseki kwakho yindlela otya ngayo ngoku.
Ufanele ujonge ukutya kwakho okuneekhalori, ingakumbi kwiiswekile, iilekese, kunye neelekese. Ndikwacebisa ukuba ufunde malunga nokutolikwa kwamaphupha malunga nokutya.
Ngaba ukhe waphupha ngokwenza itshokholethi engamanzi? Kuthetha ukuba usebenza nzima ukwakha ikamva lakho . Ukuba unengcamango yeshishini, mhlawumbi lixesha lokuyisebenzisa.
Inokumela ukuthatheka kwakho nomntu, kunye nomnqweno wakho wokwakha ubudlelwane obumanzi naye.
Ukutya ikeyiki yetshokholethi kuthetha ukuba ibali onalo nomntu okanye ubuhlobo bakho buyakhula ngokuhamba kweminyaka.
Ukwenza ikhekhe elungileyo kubandakanya umsebenzi, ukuzinikela kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ukuvuthwa kweresiphi.
Kwelinye icala, itshokholethi idla ngokutolikwa ngokwezoqoqosho . Ngaba uninzi lwazo lusezandleni zakho? Ngoko ke uqhuba kakuhle ngokwezimali.
Ukuba uphupha uwalahla okanye uwahambisa kubantu ongabaziyo, oko kuthetha ukuba uyamosha okanye uziva ngathi bakuxhaphaza.
Nika ingqalelo kwindawo ekungqongileyo. Ukuze ufumane ulwazi oluthe kratya, funda ngentsingiselo yamaphupha athetha ngemali.
Ukuphupha ngokuthenga itshokolethi kubonisa umnqweno wakho wokoyisa ixesha elinzima . Kudla ngokubonakala ukuba usandul’ ukwahlukana nomntu othandana naye, imeko yakho ichaphazelekile, okanye ufuna uthando lokwenene.
Ukuba amaphupha akho aquka itshokolethi nerayisi , anxulumene nomntu ongumntu osomashishini kodwa onobubele nofikelelekayo. Funda intsingiselo yokuphupha ngerayisi ukuze ufumane intsingiselo echanekileyo.
Ezihlobene:
Ukuba ulifumene liluncedo eli nqaku malunga nokuphupha ngetshokholethi , ndicebisa ukuba ufunde okungakumbi kwicandelo malunga namaphupha aqala ngo- C.
