Iinkukhu ziintaka ezikhuliswe ezindlwini ukuze zisondle ngokuyintloko ngamaqanda eziwabekayo. Kodwa… kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeenkukhu? Kungcono ukuba zigcinwe ngaphandle kwiifama, nangona iinkampani ezininzi zizigcina kwiikheyiji ukuze zingaphumi. Esi silwanyana sidla ngokubaleka abo basoyikisayo, kwaye ukuba sinethuba lokuzikhusela, sisebenzisa umlomo waso. Ngokubanzi, le ntaka imele ubugwala, kodwa njengoko ndisoloko ndisitsho, intsingiselo iyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kumxholo oboniswa yingqondo yakho xa ulele, kunye neemeko zakho zobuqu.
Ayifani ukuphupha iinkuku ezifileyo ekhaya (ityhila ungquzulwano losapho) kunokubona okuninzi ngamantshontsho abo (ukubonakalisa ubuntu bosapho). Ngaba zazimhlophe, zimnyama, okanye zibomvu? Ngaba babebhabha? Ngaba babenoxolo okanye babekuleqa ukuba ubethe?
Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeenkukhu
Indlela eqhelekileyo yokuziphatha kweenkukhu kukuzimela kuyo nantoni na eyoyikisayo, kuba isenokuba yirhamncwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba uphuphe iinkukhu, oko kuthetha ukuba awukho nobuchule bokujongana neengxaki nabanye abantu , ukuba uthoba intloko yakho endaweni yokujongana nabo bazama ukukulimaza. Enye yeempawu zakho kukungazibandakanyi; uneentloni kwaye awuhlali unxulumana nabantu abanomtsalane.
Kodwa njengoko benditshilo, kukho ezinye iinguqulelo ezinokwenzeka:
Ukuphupha ngeenkukhu ezifileyo kuthetha ukuba ujamelene nengxaki yezoqoqosho, kuba azizaleli amaqanda kwaye awunakukwazi ukuzondla ngawo.
Ngaba umbulele? Ngaba ubonakalise ukuzisola? Kuthetha ukuba wenze into ongaziqhenyi ngayo, njengokuthuka umhlobo, ukuphikisana neqabane lakho, okanye ukungathembeki.
Nguwe kuphela onokwazi ukuba yintoni, kodwa ndikucebisa ukuba uxolise kwaye utshintshe indlela ocinga ngayo.
Ukuba uphupha inkukhu okanye iqhude likukrwela , oko kuthethwa ngokuba uyazi ukuba kukho umntu ozama ukukuxhaphaza ngasemva kwakho kwaye ingqondo yakho ikuthumela isignali yesilumkiso.
Kwelinye icala, kufanekisela uloyiko olufihlakeleyo ekufuneka ulwenzile ukubuyela kuxolo lwangaphakathi.
Ingaba wayebeka amaqanda? Kule meko, intsingiselo ilungile, njengoko ibonisa ixesha lobutyebi bezoqoqosho.
Uqhuba kakuhle emsebenzini, urhola umvuzo olungileyo okanye uza kwandisa usapho lwakho ngomntwana omtsha.
Kwenzeka into efanayo xa kukho iinkukhu ezininzi ecaleni konina.
Belinjani iphupha lakho neenkukhu?
Ndingathanda ukuba uxelele mna kunye nabafundi ngephupha lakho leenkukhu. Sichazele ngokweenkcukacha ukuba belinjani eli bali, ukuba uziva njani kwaye ulitolike njani.
Ukuba neendawo ezininzi zokujonga kuya kunceda abatyeleli ukuba bafikelele kwizigqibo ezichanekileyo zokusombulula abangaziwa.
Ezihlobene:
- Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iqanda elosiweyo okanye elibilisiweyo?
- Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngononkala abafileyo
- Amaphupha egusha
Ukuba ulifumene liluncedo eli nqaku malunga nokuphupha ngeenkukhu , ndicebisa ukuba ufunde amanye amanqaku afanayo kwicandelo lamaphupha ezilwanyana.
