Iinkawu zizinto ezandulela abantu; sabelana ngexesha elidlulileyo eliqhelekileyo. Zizinto ezandulela uhlobo olukrelekrele kakhulu kwiplanethi yoMhlaba, mhlawumbi kulo lonke igalaksi. Yiyo loo nto iingcali zisithi ukuphupha ngeenkawu kunxulumene nobuchule bomntu bokucinga ngexesha lokuphaphama okukhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, intsingiselo yeli phupha ixhomekeke kwezinye izinto eziguquguqukayo, ezinje ngemeko eyenzeka kuyo, ubudlelwane bakho nesi silwanyana okanye ixesha oliphilayo.
Umzekelo, ukuhlaselwa ziinkawu ezinkulu (uloyiko lwekamva) akutolikwa ngendlela efanayo nokubona inkawu efileyo ezandleni zakho (umntu olahlekileyo). Kukho amathuba amaninzi, amanye awo ndiza kukubonisa apha ngezantsi.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iinkawu?
Ngokubanzi, xa ingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo ikubonisa esi silwanyana sanyisayo, imele indlela ojonga ngayo ubomi , ngakumbi ukugxila kwakho ekusombululeni iingxaki odibana nazo imihla ngemihla. Imele ukunyamezela, kunye nembeko nothando kuluntu.
Kodwa, njengoko benditshilo, kukho ezinye iinguqulelo ezitshintsha intsingiselo yokugqibela yenkawu njengophawu ephupheni lakho (okanye iphupha elibi). Ndiza kukubonisa ezona zixhaphakileyo. Iinkawu zibonisa ubuntu obunemvakalelo yokuhlekisa . Isizathu kukuba zizilwanyana ezenza izandi ezihlekisayo kwaye zenze imiqondiso emininzi ehlekisayo.
Oku kuthetha ukuba xa ubaphupha, kungenxa yokuba ungazazi iziphene zakho kwaye ubenza bahleke, wamkela ukugxekwa kwabanye abantu kwaye ubathatha ukuba baphucule ebusweni behlabathi. Ke ngoko, uzijonga njengomntu onokuzithemba okuphezulu.
Ngaba bayathetha? Ukuba i-primate ithetha nawe, imele ukukunika icebiso ngento ebikukhathaza ngelixa uvukile. Ngamanye amaxesha asazi ukuba sisiphi isigqibo esifanelekileyo, kwaye xa sivukile, asikwazi ukufumana impendulo eyanelisayo.
Kwelinye icala, ukulala, ngexesha lamaphupha, sinokucinga ngokubanda ngakumbi kwaye sinikana iingcebiso ngenkawu.
Kwangokunjalo, ikwasebenza ekuchongeni abo bantu bangafanelekanga, abazama ukusenzakalisa okanye abo baxhaphaza thina. Ezantsi uyayazi kwaye yiyo loo nto ufumana umyalezo.
Ukuphupha iinkawu ezinobundlongondlongo zihlasela kubonisa ukuba unexhala elinzulu ngaphakathi kuwe.
Inokuba yeyabucala okanye yobungcali, inyani kukuba iyakukhathaza kwaye yiyo loo nto iphupha elibi linokukothusa, likuvuse nge-pulse racing.
Ngale ndlela, kufanelekile ukujonga ezinye iinkcukacha zephupha, umzekelo ukuba uzama ukubaleka kwaye uyaphumelela, okanye ukuba uyalwa nesilwanyana, oko kungathetha ukuba uyasokola ukusisombulula.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba uzama ukubaleka kodwa uyakufumana kwaye uqhubeke nokuhlasela, kungenxa yokuba awuhlali ujongene nobunzima kwaye ufuna uncedo kumhlobo.
Ngaba bafile? Bafanekisela uloyiko lwentlekele ethile eyenzekayo , okanye iziganeko ezikwehleleyo ngokwenene kwaye zabangela intlungu enkulu, njengengozi yemoto okanye inyikima.
Nokuba kunjalo, ukuba ubona iinkawu ezifileyo kwaye uziva ngathi udinga inkxaso, thetha nomntu osondeleyo kuwe. Kwakhona, funda intsingiselo yamaphupha ngokufa.
Ngaba zikhulu okanye zincinci? Ngaba yayilusana? Idla ngokunxulunyaniswa nokufuna ukuba ngumama, ukuthatha inyathelo lokukhulelwa nokujongana nemingeni yokuba ngumama.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukhulelwe umntwana wenkawu, ngoko ke kufuneka ufunde okungakumbi malunga nokutolikwa kwamaphupha okukhulelwa.
Ezihlobene:
Ukuba ulifumene liluncedo eli nqaku malunga nokuphupha ngeenkawu , ndicebisa ukuba ufunde amanye amanqaku afanayo kwicandelo lezilwanyana.
