Ngaba ufuna ukwazi intsingiselo epheleleyo yokuphupha ngezandyondyo ? Kwimeko yamaphupha, izikhukula zinxulunyaniswa nokuvulwa kweendlela ezintsha ebomini bethu, kunye notshintsho oluya kufuna ukuziqhelanisa. Olu tshintsho luya kutshintsha ubuntu bakho, iingcamango zakho, indlela oziphatha ngayo, kunye nendlela oxabisa ngayo ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ingqondo yakho ikuthumela imifanekiso ngamaphupha ukukunceda uqonde indlela yonke into eya kutshintsha ngayo kunye nokuba amaxesha amahle namabi aya kuba njani.
Njengakwezinye iiphupha eziphathelele amanzi , kufuneka zilungelelaniswe kwaye zilungelelaniswe neemeko zakho zangoku, kunye neenkcukacha ezithile ezivele ephupheni. Akuyi kufana nokuba umkhukula wawunamanzi acacileyo, acacileyo, okanye ukuba wawungcolile kwaye wawunamaza amakhulu agubungela isixeko ngokupheleleyo.
Zininzi iindlela onokukhetha kuzo kunye neenkcukacha ekufuneka zihlolwe ngokwahlukeneyo, ukuze ube nokutolikwa ngokuchanekileyo. Siza kufunda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo:
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha izikhukula?
Ukuba ukhe wabukela imuvi okanye uthotho lweTV olufana nethi "The Impossible," apho iimvula ezinkulu kunye neetsunami zitshabalalisa izixeko zonke, okanye ukuba ukhe wabona ingxelo yeendaba malunga nomlambo ophuphuma ulwandle, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuphupha ngezikhukula . Ingqondo yakho ithathe lonke uloyiko lwaloo mzuzu kwaye iyoyika ukuba into efanayo inokwenzeka kuwe. Ukuba ukhe wajongana nezikhukula ngexesha lobuntwana bakho, usenokuba nomvandedwa ngaphakathi osongela ukuvela ebusuku. Awukawulungisi, kwaye kufuneka ufune uncedo lweengcali ukuze wenze njalo.
Kodwa ukuba khange ubenangxaki namanzi ngaphambili, kwaye obu buhlungu benziwa ngaphandle kokuba unxibelelane nezikhukula kubomi bokwenyani, iintsingiselo zinokwahluka kakhulu:
Ukuphupha ukuba isixeko sakho sigutyungelwe ngamanzi
Kwimeko enjalo, izitalato ezenza iphupha zinxulunyaniswa neqela labahlobo bakho kunye nosapho. Ukuba ukhe waxabana kakhulu nomntu (njengomzali, umntakwenu, umzala, okanye umhlobo), kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ingqondo yakho ikubonise olu hlobo lwephupha elibi. Kuqhelekile ngakumbi xa ujongene neengxaki zelifa okanye zemali zalo naluphi na uhlobo.
Ngaba amanzi acacile okanye anamafu?
Ngaba amanzi ezikhukula ayecocekile okanye amdaka? Ukuba amanzi azele yindlu yakho okanye esitalatweni ohlala kuso ayenodaka, emdaka, kwaye engcolile kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho iingxaki ezinkulu ezizayo . Ingqondo yakho icinga ngeenkcukacha kwaye iya kukulumkisa: Ngaba kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukuhlawula imali mboleko yakho? Ngaba ungabi namali yokuziphilisa? Mhlawumbi uyaqonda ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bothando abuyi ndawo kwaye ufuna ukushiya iqabane lakho? Ungaphupha nangomkhukula kuba usoyika into embi eza kwenzeka, nokuba yitsunami enkulu (kwimeko apho kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeetsunami ).
Ukuphupha indlu yangasese enezikhukula
Ukuba uphupha ngegumbi lokuhlambela eligcwele amanzi, oku kunokutolikwa njengokulungiswa okunokwenzeka ngumakhi kunye noloyiko lwakho lokuba angenza into engalunganga . Mhlawumbi ukhethe umntu ongamthembiyo ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba usenalo ixesha, kufuneka ukhethe omnye umntu. Kusenokuthetha ukuba ufuna ukwenza into kwigumbi lokuhlambela ozisolayo ngayo ngoku. Usenokuba ucinga ngokutshintsha umgangatho, ukutshintsha ibhafu ngeshawa, ukutshintsha iithayile, njl. Igumbi lokuhlambela lelinye lawona macandelo abucala ekhayeni lakho, ngoko ke kusenokwenzeka ukuba ucinge ixesha elide malunga nokwenza naluphi na utshintsho apho.
Ukuphupha usweleka kwisikhukula
Ngaba ukwazile ukubaleka kwisikhukula? Ngelishwa, ukuba isikhukula sikubambe saza sakuntywilisela, oko kuthetha ukuba ubuntu bakho bubuthathaka kancinci kwaye ukulandela loo ndlela kuya kukhokelela ekusileleni.
Ukuphupha ukuba ubaleka umkhukula
Kodwa ukuba ndilwele ukukusindisa waza waphumelela, oko kuthetha ukuba ungumntu onamandla amakhulu angaphakathi ozama ukuqhubela phambili nangona iingxaki zinzima kwaye awuyi kunikezela ude ufumane isisombululo esitshintsha yonke into.
Ukuphupha ngomkhukula kwaye usindisa abantu
Ukuba, ukongeza ekuzisindiseni, ukwasindise nabanye abantu, oko kuthetha ukuba abahlobo bakho banokukuthemba.
Ukuqukumbela, xa ingqondo yakho ikubonisa isixeko esizaliswe yimvula, nokuba liza elikhulu okanye nayiphi na enye imeko yemozulu embi, oko kuthetha ukuba soyika ukungaphumeleli , ukonakala kwezoqoqosho okanye umsebenzi, okanye ukulahlekelwa bubudlelwane bothando okanye obunobuhlobo.
Ukuba wakha wanolu hlobo lobubi, singathanda ukuba wabelane ngamava akho nathi.
Ividiyo yentsingiselo yokuphupha malunga nezikhukula
Ukuba esi sicatshulwa malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngezandyondyo siye saba nomdla kuwe, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ufake icandelo lamaphupha kunye nonobumba u- 1.
