Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeminenga? Amaphupha ngeminenga aqheleke kakhulu ukuba ukhe wadibana nesi silwanyana sanyisayo; kungekuko ebomini bokwenyani, kodwa ngomabonwakude (njengakwidokhumentari), kwimuvi efana ne "Moby Dick," okanye ukuba ukhe weva iindaba ezinxulumene noko. Cinga ngalo naluphi na unxibelelwano onokuba unalo nesi silwanyana sanyisayo sikhulu, njengoko kunokuba sisizathu sephupha.
Izinto ziyatshintsha ukuba iphupha lenzeka ngokungacwangciswanga, ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonakalayo. Kukwabalulekile kakhulu ukuqwalasela ukuba liyaphindaphinda na. Kodwa kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ukutolikwa kwamaphupha kuya kwahluka ngokusekelwe kwiimeko zakho zobuqu kunye neenkcukacha zephupha . Akufani nokuba selwandle ubone imikhomo idada kude njengoko kufana nokuyibona ifile, imibala eyahlukileyo, okanye idada esibhakabhakeni. Ukuze sikuncede ngokutolikwa, makhe sijonge iimeko eziqhelekileyo.
Fumanisa intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeminenga?
Iingcali zithi amaphupha ngemikhomo anxulunyaniswa nobuntu obunesibindi , kunye nomnqweno wokufezekisa iinjongo zabo. Abantu abaphupha ngemikhomo badla ngokuba netalente enkulu yokukhokela amaqela nokuwaqhubela empumelelweni. Le yeyona ngcaciso iqhelekileyo, kodwa isenokungahambelani ncam nephupha obeliphupha. Oku kuqhelekile, kuba, njengoko sesitshilo, kukho amathuba amaninzi. Kuya kufuneka uqwalasele iimeko zakho zangoku zobomi, imeko yakho yeemvakalelo, kunye neenkcukacha ezithile zephupha.
Nangona ezi zilwanyana zikhulu kakhulu, ungaphupha ukuba nguwe whale oyihamba embindini wolwandle, kwaye ubekelwe bucala kwezinye. Sicebisa ukuba ucinge ngazo zonke iinkcukacha ezivele ephupheni, kuba ziya kuba luncedo kakhulu kuwe yokwazisa inyaniso.
Zeziphi ezona ngcaciso zixhaphakileyo malunga neminenga ephuphayo?
Ukuba uphuphe ngemikhomo ebulalayo kunye nooshaka , eli phupha lidla ngokuvela xa ujongene nexesha elinzima kakhulu, okanye njengophawu lokuba uziphatha kakubi kwabanye abantu (usenokuba uyabalibala abahlobo bakho, okanye ukhukhumele kakhulu ngabo).
Ingqondo yakho iyazi ukuba khange isebenze kakuhle kwaye ikuthumela imifanekiso yeminenga kunye nookrebe ekuhlaselayo.
Ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba uthetha ukuthini lo myalezo, lixesha lokuba uphinde ucinge, ucinge ngeempazamo ozenzileyo kwaye ucele uxolelo.
Sikwacebisa ukuba ufunde ngokuphupha ngooshaka.
Ukuba uphuphe ngemikhomo, iidolphin kunye nee-orcas, ngoko sikwimeko entle kakhulu, kuba ezi zilwanyana zasekhaya zinoxolo.
Iphupha eli lihlala linxulumene nenyaniso yokuba sikumzuzwana wokuthula emva kokuba sincame okuninzi.
Uzolile kwaye oku kukwenza ubone ukuba zidada njani ngoxolo ezi zilwanyana. Kuya kufuneka uthathe ithuba lokuzola, kuba inokuba iphambi kwesiphango esikhulu.
Kufuneka ufunde nangentsingiselo yokuphupha ngeedolphin.
Ukuba uphuphe ngeminenga efileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba ungumntu ofuna ukufezekisa iinjongo zakhe nokuba uthatha yiphi na indlela, nokuba ngubani na onokuthi agqibelise ukumtyumza endleleni.
Into yokuba bafile ibonisa ukuba uzinikele ebantwini kwaye ezantsi uyazi ukuba ubekek 'ityala ngayo.
Kuya kufuneka uxolise ngaphambi kokuba izinto zibe mbi: inokuchaphazela abahlobo bakho kunye nolwalamano lwakho lothando.
Ukuba uphuphe ngemikhomo emhlophe okanye eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka… Umbala uhambelana nobukhulu bomkhomo. Iimikhomo ezimhlophe zihlala zincinci kunemikhomo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kwaye zihlala emanzini anzulu.
Iminenga emikhulu iphuphile, ubungakanani bunxulunyaniswa nobukhulu beengxaki ojamelana nazo (okanye nobungakanani ocinga ukuba banazo).
Ukuba iminenga incinci, oko kuthetha ukuba ucinga ukuba iingxaki zakho azikho nkulu kangako.
Ukuba iminenga yayivuya ngelixa itsiba elwandle... yimiqondiso emihle, kuba oko kuthetha ukuba uza kufumana iindaba ezibalulekileyo okanye imiqondiso emihle.
Ukuba uzabalazile ukuphumelela uviwo, ukuba wenze konke onako ukuze umvuzo wakho uphakanyiswe, okanye ukuba usebenzile wenza nantoni na, iinzame zakho ziya kuba nembuyekezo.
Ukuba uphuphe ukuba imikhomo ikwichibi lokudada, ngoko ke kufuneka ufunde ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngechibi lokudada.
Ingaba yayiyiminenga? Eli phupha liqhelekile xa ukhulelwe, okanye xa umfazi wakho ekhulelwe. Kule meko, uphupha kukho inenga edada ngolonwabo elwandle nonina.
Oku kuthetha ukuba sinomoya wokukhusela ukufika komntwana. Sikwacebisa ukuba ufunde ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngeentsana.
Amaqhekeza, imikhomo yesidoda okanye umva ... uhlobo alunamsebenzi.
Ngaba wakha waphupha ngeminenga ebomini bakho? Waziva njani xa wadibana nezi zidalwa zingakholelekiyo? Wafikelela kwesiphi isigqibo malunga nengqondo yakho efuna ukukuxelela yona? Ngaba wakha waphupha ngomnenga?
Ayizukukhathaza xa uyibhala kumagqabantshintshi, kuba ngale ndlela abanye abantu banokukhokelwa kukutolika kwakho ukuze bazi amaphupha abo ngokweenkcukacha.
Kuya kufuneka ufunde malunga:
Ukuba olu lwazi malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngemikhomo luluncedo , ndicebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye iintsingiselo zamaphupha afanayo kudidi lokuphupha ngesilwanyana.
