Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeenkomo , eli nqaku liza kukuxelela yonke into. Ngokwemvelo, abalimi kunye nabo bahlala kufutshane nedlelo elineenkomo ezityayo banamathuba amaninzi okuphupha ngeenkomo . Kodwa akufuneki ube kufutshane nesilwanyana okanye ube nonxibelelwano naso ukuze ingqondo yakho ikubonise imifanekiso yazo.
Ndingafunga ukuba, ngaphandle kokuyibona, siyayazi inkqubo yokwenza itshizi, ubisi kunye nezinye iimveliso zobisi. Kungenxa yoko kufanelekile ukuba ucinge enye okanye nangaphezulu xa ulele.
Ukutya nje iqhekeza lesonka samasi esitsha okanye ukusela indebe yobisi olufudumeleyo kunokwenza inkomo icinge. Nangona kunjalo, zininzi iindlela zokutolika amaphupha ezinokwenzeka, kuba akufani nokuba uphupha ukuba ityebile okanye ibhityile, iphilile okanye ifile, ikuhlasela, iyagula, okanye itya ukutya . Kubalulekile ukwahlula zonke iintsingiselo nganye nganye ukuze ukwazi ukufikelela kwisigqibo esichanekileyo kwaye usichazele ubomi bakho.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeenkomo?
Iingcali zengqondo ngokubanzi zikholelwa ukuba amaphupha ngeenkomo neenkunzi anxulunyaniswa namaxesha okuchuma ebomini , nokuba ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwemisebenzi, okanye ngokwezemali. Umzekelo, ukuba uphupha iinkomo zobisi zisitya emasimini, oko kubonisa ixesha loxolo apho imali okanye ukufumana iqabane kungekho kuluhlu lwezinto ezikuxhalabisayo.
Uphumelele kwishishini, ukhulise usapho oluhle okanye uzalisekise eyona minqweno yakho. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa wabelana ngezi mpumelelo kunye nabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni, okuthetha kuwe ukuba nemfesane, isisa, ubuntu obunobuntu.
Ngamafutshane, awukhathazeki ngengomso kuba akuyi kufuneka ukhathazeke ngokuphila ubomi obupheleleyo . Kodwa njengoko benditshilo, kukho iintlobo ezininzi zamaphupha kunye neemeko; ayizizo zonke izinto ezintle. Ukuze ufumane ingcaciso echanekileyo, kufuneka uqwalasele zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka. Masizihlalutye nganye nganye.
Ukutolika okungakumbi kwamaphupha kunye neempawu zeenkomo kunye neenkunzi zeenkomo
Bayaphila okanye bafile?
Nantsi ingcaciso yokuqala engalunganga. Ukuphupha ngeenkomo ezifileyo kuthetha uloyiko lokulahlekelwa yiyo yonke into onayo.
Bonke ubutyebi endibukhankanyileyo ngasentla bunokuphela nangawuphi na umzuzu, kwaye ungaziva usoyika ukushiywa ungenanto.
Abantu ngamanye amaxesha benza iimpazamo ezikhokelela ekonakaleni, kwintlekele. Idlelo eligcwele ukubola nokufa kwezilwanyana linokujika libe liphupha elihlasimlis 'umzimba.
Ukuba uziva ulele kakhulu, thetha nabahlobo bakho ngezinto ezikukhathazayo. Kuya kuba luncedo ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngokufa.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba inkomo iyaphila, akukho nto inokubangela ixhala ngayo , kodwa ukuze kufunyanwe intsingiselo echanekileyo, kufuneka kuqwalaselwe nezinye iinkalo.
Zityebile okanye zibhityile?
Ukuba uphupha usenga ngothando iinkomo ezinkulu nezityebileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba uzinyamekela ngononophelo zonke izinto zakho , kwaye ulungile ekusebenziseni zonke izixhobo ezikhoyo kuwe.
Ngokwenyani, amanqatha esilwanyana esincancisayo ahambelani nobutyebi onabo, kodwa kwithuku lokuzikhusela. Oko kukuthi, ulusu lolusu, ukubaluleka kokuncinci okunikezelayo kwinto ekungqongileyo, ngokwe-psychoanalysis.
Ngaba banesibindi, bayakusukela kwaye bakuhlasele?
Ngamanye amaxesha, ungaphupha ngenkomo emhlophe entle edlelweni , incancisa amathole ayo ngobisi oluvela emabeleni ayo.
Ngequbuliso, uyabona ukuba uyakujonga, aze aqalise ukukuleqa. Ubaleka ukukuhlasela! Uyabona ukuba ubuso bakhe bunomsindo kwaye awazi ukuba kutheni esiba ndlongondlongo ngephanyazo.
Itolikwa ukuba umntu okujikelezayo uyakusukela kwaye uzama ukukuphanga, ukukungcatsha. I-subconscious yakho iyayazi le nto kodwa ayazi ncam ukuba ngubani ozama ukukwenzakalisa.
Kubalulekile ukuba ungawuthobisi umkhusane wakho ukuze ungafumani monakalo ongenakulungiseka njengakwiphupha.
Kusekho ukutolikwa okungakumbi malunga nephupha, kunqabile.
Ngaba uzijonga njengezingcwele? Kwezinye iinkcubeko, iinkomo zinentsingiselo yonqulo kwaye azichukunyiswa . Ungazisenga ubisi, kodwa awunakuzibulala okanye utye inyama yazo.
Ukuba ufumana ingxaki yesazisi, unokuba nazo ezi ntlobo zemifanekiso, apho isilwanyana sijikela kwigolide. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba uyatyiwa, akakholelwa kuThixo okanye ukholelwa, enyanisweni ayinamsebenzi ukuba ungowayiphi inkolo.
Kuya kufuneka ukuba uzifumanele kuhambo lokomoya ukufumana intsingiselo eyiyo.
Ingaba uyamsenga rhoqo? Ukuphupha ngeenkomo ezisengayo kunxulunyaniswa nesidingo sokufumana imali yokuhlawula iindleko zokuphela kwenyanga, imali mboleko yendlu, okanye irenti yakho.
Kungenzeka ukuba ungumntu onamabhongo kunye neenjongo zakho, uzama ukufumana okona kulungileyo ukuze ufumane izibonelelo. Usebenza imini nobusuku, ubuchule bokuqamba yenye yeendlela onamandla ngazo.
Ngaba uyasokola? Udlula kwixesha apho kufuneka uphindaphinde imizamo yakho ukuze ufezekise iinjongo zakho. Hlala uphakamise isilevu sakho!
Ngezinye izilwanyana, ezinje ngamahashe kunye neenkunzi zesibindi.
Ezihlobene:
- Phupha ngamahashe
- Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeenkomo negazi
- Amaphupha okutya okuninzi, okunotyebileyo okanye okubolileyo
- Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha inyama eluhlaza
Ukuba ulifumene liluncedo eli nqaku malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeenkomo , ndicebisa ukuba undwendwele amanye amanqaku afanayo kwicandelo lokutolikwa kwamaphupha ezilwanyana.
