Xa umntu ephupha ngokudubulana , uyazibuza ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba iphupha lithetha ukuthini. Umfuziselo wokudubulana unzima, kodwa ngokubanzi umele amaxesha okubandezeleka anokubangela ukuphelelwa lithemba kumphuphi.
Ke ngoko, namhlanje ndikutyhilela ukutolikwa okwahlukileyo kwala maphupha, ukuze ufumane into oyaziyo i-subconscious, kwaye yeyiphi indawo ebomini bakho onokuyidibanisa nayo.
Yintoni intsingiselo yamaphupha emipu?
Ngokubanzi, ukuphupha ngokudubula umpu wakho kuthetha ukuba unobuntu obunebhongo kwaye awuyeki ude ufezekise iinjongo zakho. Qhubeka kuba usemgceni ochanekileyo. Ukuba uphupha ukuba omnye umntu ukudubule, kuthathwa njengokuziva ngathi kukho umntu okulandelayo, ezama ukukulimaza ngasemva kwakho. Usenokuba sengozini—sabela!
Ukuba nguwe odubula omnye umntu, kuthetha ukuba uyamthiya, ubambe inzondo, okanye unengxabano ethile naloo mntu . Ukuba uphupha usekhaya kwaye uva ukudubula kufutshane, oko kubonisa uloyiko lwakho lokulahlekelwa zizinto zakho.
Ngaba unengxaki yokuhlawula imali mboleko yendlu yakho? Ngaba uza kulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi wakho kwaye ukwimeko yezemali engaguqukiyo? Ngaba ubungenamsebenzi kwishishini lakho kwaye alivelisi ziphumo ubuzilindele? Yeka ukuba nomona kwaye uqale umsebenzi. Ukuba uphupha umfundisi okanye imonki ikudubula, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho iingxaki zangaphakathi ekufuneka uzivume . Ngaba ukhe wangcatsha umhlobo wakho? Ngaba ubungathembekanga kwiqabane lakho waza wazisola?
Ukuba uphupha udutyulwe waze wafa, oko kuthetha ukuba ubandezeleka ngenxa yomnye umntu ozama ukukulimaza.
Mhlawumbi umhlobo wobuxoki uyakuxhaphaza kwaye i-subconscious yakho iyayazi. Nangona kunjalo, ukutolikwa kuyaphikisana ukuba xa ungafanga ephupheni, nto leyo ebonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisana naye.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba ubulawa , uyafa, kwaye uzalwe ngokutsha njengesilwanyana okanye esinye isidalwa, oko kuthetha ukuba ungathanda ukuqala kwasekuqaleni , ushiye ecaleni into ekukhathazayo, kwaye ulandele iminqweno yakho yokufumana ulonwabo.
Ukuphupha udubula yonke indawo ungawubeki kwindawo ekujoliswe kuyo kuthetha ukuba ukuphoxeka kukubambe kuba, nangona umgudu owenze kwinto ethile, awukafikeleli kwinto obuyizimisele ukuyenza.
Ukongeza, oku kuthoba ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye kubangele ukungazithembi kuwe.
Isisombululo kweli phupha libuhlungu sifumaneka ngokuncika kusapho lwakho, ngokucela iingcebiso kubahlobo ukuze babe neembono ezingakumbi.
Ngoku, sixelele ngephupha lakho elimalunga nokudubulana , ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kanye kanye, kwaye uyitolike njani into echazwe yingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo.
Ngaba unayo umpu, umpu womatshini, okanye olunye uhlobo lwesixhobo? Ngaba nguwe ochaphazelekayo okanye nguwe oye wakhupha? Abafundi bayakuvuyela ukuba nezinye izimvo.
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