Amaphupha akwayindlela i-subconscious yethu ezama ngayo ukuhlela iinkumbulo zayo . Kodwa akwasilumkisa ngezinto ezithile ezenzekayo kufutshane nathi okanye izinto ezingayi kusichaphazela. Kule meko, ukuphupha ngokuzikhupha ebhedini yinto esingayithandiyo, kodwa inokwenzeka. Kuthetha ukuthini xa oku kusenzeka? Ingaba yinto elungileyo okanye embi?
Nangona isenzo ngokwaso singemnandanga kakhulu ukusibona okanye ukujoja, inyaniso kukuba, kuxhomekeke kwimeko ozifumana ukuyo, inokuba yinto entle okanye embi. Siyicacisa ngezantsi.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uzikhulula
Njengakumaphupha, akunakuthiwa anentsingiselo esisigxina. Ngokuxhomekeke kumxholo wephupha, nokuba nguwe okanye ngomnye umntu, okanye ezinye izinto, ukuphupha ngokuzikhupha esibhedlele kungaba yinto entle okanye into embi.
Nangona kwiimeko ezininzi kunokuba mbi, kukho ezinye iimeko apho i-subconscious yakho ikulumkisa ngento enhle. Eyiphi? Sizibona ngezantsi.
Ukuphupha ukuya kwindlu yangasese, kuthetha ukuthini?
Ngaba wakha waphupha ukuba kufuneka uye kwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze uyokuzithuma? Ukholelwe okanye ungakholwa, eli liphupha lendalo neliqhelekileyo . Ingxaki kukuba intsingiselo yalo ayilunganga.
Enyanisweni, xa oku kusenzeka ephupheni, kubonisa ukuba kuza iingxaki . Ezi zisenokuba zinxulumene nosapho, umsebenzi, imali, amatyala... Kodwa oko kubonisa ixesha elinzima.
Enye yeentsingiselo ezinikiweyo kukuba uzive uwedwa nosapho, iqabane, izihlobo...
Phupha ukubona omnye umntu ezithuma
Mhlawumbi eli liphupha elingaqhelekanga onokuba nalo, kodwa linokwenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, asinto oqhele ukuyiva (okanye ukuyiphupha). Kodwa inyani yile, ithetha "ihlazo ." Luphawu lokuba sele uza kwenza into ethile, okanye sele wenze into ethile, kwaye awuziva kakuhle ngawe.
Isenokuba kungenxa yokuba ubeke into ethile phambili, okanye ngenxa yokuba uye wazuza, ngokobuqu okanye ngokomsebenzi, kwaye uziva uneentloni ngoko kwenzekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ikwanenye intsingiselo, eyokuba neentloni, ukungabi nasibindi sokuthatha inyathelo ebomini bakho , nokuba kukuthatha iintambo okanye ukwenza loo nto uyithandayo kakhulu.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uzikhulula kakhulu
Ukuba ephupheni lakho inani lendle oyikhuphayo okanye oyibonayo liphezulu kakhulu , ngaphandle kokuba ayicocekanga, ineentsingiselo ezimbini:
- Kwelinye icala, isenokuba yingqokelela enkulu yobunzima ukuba unaye nomthwalo ophezu kwabo bonke.
- Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iyakuba kukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela, oko kukuthi, obu bunzima buqalisa ukuconjululwa kancinane.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iingcali zifumanisa ukuba yinto efanelekileyo kuba yonke into inomda kwaye nakwintsingiselo yokuqala, kufika kwindawo apho iingxaki zisonjululwa.
Ukuphupha uzama ukuzithuma kodwa ube ungakwazi kuthetha ukuthini?
Ukuba ephupheni lakho uzama ukukhupha isisu kodwa awukwazi, loo nto ithetha ukuba iingxaki nobunzima onabo ebomini bokwenyani aziyi kusonjululwa, kwaye ukongeza, kukho umntu okanye abantu abazama ukukuthintela ukuba uqhubeke phambili.
Singathi ujamelene nokungcatshwa ngumntu osondele kakhulu kuye.
Phupha udlala ngelindle
Oku mhlawumbi lelinye lawona maphupha axhaphakileyo kubantwana abancinci, kuba njengabantu abadala asiqhelekanga ukuba nalo kuziphatha. Kodwa i-subconscious yakho inokudlala amaqhinga kuwe kwaye ikwenze uphuphe ngendawo yokubona udlala ngeelindle.
Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, yazi ukuba unengxaki yokuxhalaba, ingakumbi ukuxhalaba malunga nemeko yakho yezemali kunye nokhuseleko . Ngoko ke, ukuze ungaphindi ube nala maphupha, kungcono ukucacisa ezo nkalo zimbini.
Iphupha lokuzikhulula kodwa ungakwazi ukususa ilindle
Ukuba wakha waphupha ukuba uye kwigumbi lokuhlambela, kodwa nokuba uhlambe kangakanani na, ilindle alizange liphele, oko kuthetha ukuba ucinezela iimvakalelo zakho, ukuba awubonisi ezo mvakalelo unazo , kwaye, njengelindle, zinamathele kuwe, kwaye kuphela ngokukhupha oko ukuzivayo apho uya kukwazi ukuphelisa loo ngxaki.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha urhudo
Enye imeko onokuyikhumbula xa uvuka ephupheni lakho kukuba unesifo sohudo. Urhudo luthetha ukungakwazi ukulawula into ethile ebomini bakho, ngokwesiqhelo iimvakalelo zakho.
Kufana nokuba uyazivumela ukuba uhambe okomzuzwana kodwa ufuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha into ethile kobo bomi, kuphela awukwenzi kwaye uphazamisekile ukuvumela ezona mvakalelo zimbi ukuba zivele (okanye ukufihla okubi kunye nezakhayo).
Phupha malunga nokuhamba kwamathumbu esidlangalaleni
Ngokwesiqhelo, sikhetha ukuzithuma sodwa kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ngoko ke ukuphupha ngokwenza oku phambi kwabanye kunokubonakala kuhlazisa kakhulu. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba sikuxelele ukuba lelinye lawona maphupha amnandi onokuba nawo malunga nokuzithuma?
Ewe, kunjalo. Kubonisa impumelelo entle.
Enyanisweni, kuza kuba yinto eza kuwe ize itshintshe ubomi bakho ngonaphakade . Inokuba yintoni leyo? Kaloku, umntu oza kukuxhasa, umsebenzi omtsha, iprojekthi enenzuzo enkulu...
Nangona unokucinga ukuba kuyahlazisa, kukwakuxelela ukuba unamandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungoyiki imingeni, okanye izimvo nokugxekwa ngabanye abantu, kodwa ungaya phambili ngaphandle kokunaka into ongafanele uyenze.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukungabambeki wenze ebhulukhweni
Elinye lamaphupha anokunika i-creeps eninzi kukuhlamba ibhulukhwe yakho, ngaphandle kokukwazi ukuya kwindlu yangasese ngexesha.
Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kufuneka wazi ukuba kubonisa ukuba awuzithembi kwaye okwangoku wenza izigqibo ezingalunganga . Ngoko ke, kubonisa "ibala" kuwe, into engalunganga kwaye ikuchaphazela kakubi.
Yintoni ebonisa ukuzithuma kwaye awukwazi ukuzicoca
Ukuba ephupheni lakho uyaphuma uyokuzithuma kodwa ungakwazi ukuzicoca, ingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo itsala ingqalelo yakho kwiingxaki zobomi bakho . Uyaziphepha, kodwa oko akuyi kusombulula nto; endaweni yoko, ziya kuqokelelana kwaye zibe nefuthe elibi kubomi bakho.
Ngoku lithuba lakho lokuba ukhumbule ukuba lalinjani iphupha kwaye ukhangele intsingiselo yokuphupha ukuzikhulula.
