Kweli nqaku malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngamangcwaba, ndiza kutyhila zonke iintsingiselo zalo phupha. Ubusazi na ukuba amangcwaba kunye namangcwaba avuselela intlonipho kubantu abangaphezu kwama-70% kwihlabathi liphela? Ngaba wakha waphupha ngelinye, ubona amabhokisi kunye namatye engcwaba abantu obaqhelileyo okanye abantu ongabaziyo? Asilophupha liqhelekileyo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uninzi lwenu belunomdla ngaxa lithile ebomini benu ngokuya emangcwabeni ebusuku.
Uninzi lwethu luyazibuza ukuba yintoni engaphaya kobomi, nto leyo enokukhokelela kumaphupha eebhokisi ezivaliweyo okanye ezivulekileyo, amatye engcwaba, okanye ingcwaba liphela. Kodwa zininzi iintsingiselo ezinokwenzeka kuxhomekeke kwimeko evezwa yingqondo yakho. Ungaphupha emini okanye ebusuku, kusenokuba kukho amangcwaba okanye iibhokisi, ungazifumana ufile, ingcwaba ngokwalo lisenokuba lihle, lidala, okanye libe lelabantwana okanye izilwanyana kuphela. Okanye nokuba ingcwaba liyinkangala.
I-Psychoanalysis inzima ngokuhlalutya umxholo kunye nemeko yakho yobuqu. Funda ukuze ufumane zonke iinguqulelo zephupha.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngamangcwaba?
Iphupha malunga namangcwaba aliqhelekanga ukunxulunyaniswa nemiqondiso emibi yokugula okanye ishwangusha. Lithetha nje ukuba ungumntu othanda ukwazi othanda ukuphanda izinto ongaziqondiyo ngokupheleleyo.
Intsingiselo yelizwi amangcwaba
Igama elithi "ingcwaba" livela kwigama lesiLatini elithi "cemeteriu" kunye nelithi "coemeterium," elivela kwigama lesiGrike elithi " koimeterion , " elithetha " indlu yokulala, indawo yokulala . " Eli gama livela kwinkolelo yobuKrestu yokuba imizimba yabafileyo yayilala emangcwabeni kude kube ngumhla wovuko. Ekuqaleni, ngesiSpanish, yayibizwa ngokuba yi "cemeterio," kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, kongezwa u-"n" kwisifinyezo.
Ukuphupha ngokundwendwela ingcwaba lezalamane emangcwabeni
Enye into enokwenzeka kukuba ungatyelela loo ndawo ulele, ukuze ubone ingcwaba lomntu omthandayo omkhumbulayo. Usenokufuna ukuphinda udibane naye , kwaye ukuphupha ngaye kunokuyanelisa loo mfuno kancinci.
Ukuphupha uthetha nomntu ofileyo emangcwabeni
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu oswelekileyo uvuka engcwabeni uze uqale incoko naye. Kwenzeke kum, ndize ndivuke ndizolile kuba ndithethe nomntu endingazange ndimbone ixesha elide. Abanye abantu bafumana intuthuzelo xa bekunye nezalamane zabo eziswelekileyo , yiyo loo nto kuqhelekile ukuphupha indawo yokungcwaba enamatye engcwaba, ingcwaba, kunye neendawo zabantu ababaziyo. Babona iintyatyambo, imiyalezo yokuvalelisa, iminqamlezo, kunye nezinye iimpawu zonqulo ezimele iinkolelo zabo. Eli phupha lifana kakhulu nephupha malunga neziporho.
Amaphupha amangcwaba
Enye intsingiselo enokwenzeka yamaphupha malunga namangcwaba inxulumene nokwandiswa kobuntu bakho. Ii-emos, ii-goth, abo bathanda ii-zombies, ii-vampires, kunye nabalinganiswa abamnyama abafanayo... kwaba bantu, amangcwaba abonakala njengendawo entle neyonwabisayo . Baya kuwo ebusuku, kungekhona emini, baze bacinge ngabafileyo kunye nezinye izinto ezibonakala zingaqhelekanga kuthi. Bahlala ematyeni engcwaba baze bajonge iibhokisi. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, akuqhelekanga ukuba baphuphe ngamangcwaba ubusuku ngabunye. Uhlalutyo lwengqondo lwamaphupha luchaza ukuba lulwandiso nje lobuntu babo.
Ukuphupha ukuba emva kwendlu yakho kukho amangcwaba
Ukuba ungumntu ophupha ngolu hlobo, kufuneka uqwalasele iingxaki ezenzeka ekhayeni lakho . Awunakuphepha ukuthatha uxanduva nokusombulula ezi ngxaki ngaphambi kokuba imeko ibe mandundu. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukongeza kwindawo yokungcwaba, kukho icawa emva kwendlu yakho; kwimeko enjalo, ndicebisa ukuba ufunde inqaku elipheleleyo malunga nentsingiselo yokuphupha ngecawa.
Ityala lokwenyani lamaphupha ngamangcwaba
Umfundi wale webhusayithi wayefuna ukusibalisela ibali lakhe lephupha awayenalo kwaye wacela ukuba sabelane ngalo, ndiza kuthi:
Wayesandul 'ukuswelekelwa ngumzalwana, yaye wayemkhumbula kakhulu.
Ephupheni, ndaya emangcwabeni apho samngcwaba khona. Ndaya kwilitye lengcwaba lemabhile kwaye ndabona ukuba kulo kubhalwe umyalezo othi "Phumla ngoxolo."
Andazi ukuba kwakutheni kodwa yayiyindawo entle kakhulu, ngokungathi yeyabantwana, egcwele amanzi neentyatyambo. Kwakusemini, kodwa kwase kuqala ukuba mnyama.
Kwaye kwavulwa ingcwaba lemabhile kwaye kwaphuma ubhuti wam owayefile kwaye ndaqala ukuthetha naye malunga neeprojekthi namaphupha endandinawo engqondweni kwaye andinakumxelela ndisaphila. Ndinqwenela ukuba ndiphuphe la pantheon yonke imihla.
Intsingiselo yelo phupha ilula kakhulu. Umfundi wethu othandekayo uziva ekhumbula kakhulu ukusweleka komntakwabo . Ngenxa yoko, uphupha ethetha naye aze aye kumkhangela emangcwabeni.
Njengoko ubona, ukutolikwa kwalo akunanto yakwenza nokugula okanye imiqondiso emibi, okanye nokuphupha ngeezombies okanye iziporho. Umhlobo wethu undixelele indlela ekwakumnandi ngayo ukukwazi ukuphinda uqhagamshelane nomntu amthandayo kangaka. Ungumfazi othandekayo ngokwenene.
Ividiyo yokuphupha ngamangcwaba
Ukuba ulifumene liluncedo eli nqaku malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngengcwaba , ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde amanye amanqaku anxulumene nalo kudidi lwamaphupha aqala ngoonobumba u- C.
