Kweli nqaku, ndichaza ngokweenkcukacha ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeengwe . Oku kwenzeka kumadoda nabafazi, abantwana kunye nabantu abadala ngokufanayo. Kwihlabathi lamaphupha, iphupha ngesi silwanyana sinoburhalarhume linokubangelwa kukubukela imuvi, ukufunda imagazini, okanye ukubukela idokhumentari. Linokwenzeka nokuba uya kwi-safari okanye undwendwele i-zoo uze ubone iingwe . Nangona kunjalo, i-subconscious yakho inokukuthumela imifanekiso ngelixa ulele nangona ungayibonanga.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuqhubeka, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba kuxhomekeke kubuntu bakho, kunye nomxholo wephupha, intsingiselo yokugqibela iya kwahluka kakhulu. Umzekelo, ayifani into yokubona ingwe yebhokhwe kunenye enkulu. Ngaba i-flare? Ngaba ivela kwiingonyama? Ngaba uyamphulula okanye uyakuhlasela?
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ingwe?
Uhlalutyo lwengqondo lucacile kule ngongoma. Ngokubanzi, ingwe ifanekisela umlinganiswa wakho . Usenokuba ugqume umsindo omninzi ofihlakeleyo, ufuna ukugquma nokuwukhwaza phezu kwezindlu. Uziva ngathi uya uqina kwaye ukubandezeleka kuza kuphela kungekudala, ngoku ulawula abanye, okanye ubuncinane izigqibo zakho. Uba ndlongondlongo, ukrelekrele, ukhawuleza, umhle, kwaye uhloniphekile. Okwenzekileyo okukungqongileyo kwiinyanga okanye kwiminyaka yakutshanje kukwenze wabona izinto ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Kodwa njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela umxholo ovezwa yingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo kunye nemeko yakho yobuqu . Ukunika eminye imizekelo, iimeko ziyahluka ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni uhlaselwa yingwe, nokuba uyayibulala ingwe, okanye ukuba uyakwazi ukubaleka. Ngezantsi uza kufumana zonke iindlela ezinokukunceda ufikelele kwingcaciso echanekileyo.
Olunye utoliko kunye neempawu zamaphupha engwe okanye yengonyama
Ingaba ikusukela? Ukuba ngexesha lokulala kwakho ubona indlela iingonyama okanye iingwe ezikusukela ngayo ukuze zikuhlasele kwaye zikuzingele, oko kubonisa ukuba kukho inkxalabo ebomini bakho ongakhange uyisombulule, kwaye akukuvumeli ukuba uphumle ngoxolo ebusuku.
Jonga indlela osabela ngayo xa ubona isilwanyana esinoburhalarhume ngasemva kwakho. Ukuba ukwazile ukusaba okanye ukusibulala, oko kuthetha ukuba unamandla aneleyo okunqoba naluphi na ucelomngeni.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba awukwazi ukuphuma kuyo, mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo kubahlobo abasondeleyo ukusombulula zonke iingxaki zakho.
Ukongeza, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ingwe ye-bengal ifile, ezi zinto zixhalabisayo zichazwa ukuba ziphelile engqondweni yakho, nangona inokuba sisalathiso sokuba ubakhathalele kangakanani ubukumkani bezilwanyana kunye neentlobo ezikhuselweyo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba endaweni yokuba umkhulu, uya kubona injana entle, ijonge ngamehlo alusizi.
Ukuqhubeka neengwe ezincinci , xa uphupha ngezilwanyana ezincinci ngokubanzi, uziphethe njengezilwanyana zasekhaya ekhaya kwaye uzinyamekela ezandleni zakho, oko kuthetha ukuba unengqondo yokuzikhusela.
Unenkxalabo ngokhuseleko lwabantwana bakho okanye lwexesha elizayo ukuba ukhulelwe. Ufuna ukumbamba kwiingalo zakho kwaye umenzele yonke imihla.
Enye yeembono ze-psychoanalysts kukuba i-tiger okanye ingonyama isilwanyana esikhethwe yi-subconscious kuba ngaphantsi ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho azimele kwaye akwazi ukuzimela xa ekhulile.
Uya kumfundisa ukuba azikhusele emhlabeni, azikhathalele ngaphandle kwesidingo soncedo kwabanye.
Ingaba imhlophe? Esi silwanyana sidla ngokubonakala njengengwe emhlophe yaseBengal emaphupheni akho , oko kuthetha ukuba umphefumlo wakho uzele bubunyulu; awuqhele ukwenza izono okanye ukwenzakalisa abanye abantu.
Uyakuthanda ukunceda abanye kuba unesisa kwaye unobubele. Umntu onexabiso, ukongeza ekubeni omelele kwaye enotyekelo lwempumelelo. Awunakuqhathwa kuba ingqondo yakho inempahla entle.
Musa ukuqhatha abanye, ukuthembeka kuluphawu lwakho.
Ezinye izilwanyana ezifanayo: iingwe, iipuma, iingonyama kunye neengonyamakazi.
Ndiyakuthanda ukuba wabelane ngamava akho ukuba uke waphupha iphupha. Njengokuba kwakunjalo? Wawuthini umxholo obuboniswe yi-subconscious? Uzive njani kwaye ufumanise ntoni?
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